Still working on gettting EVERYTHING cleaned up... Mostly the outside of the house now...
I don't know if I have mentioned yet that my fiance's father and mother are alcoholics, but that's a huge stressor on my life, especially since they live right next door... HA! And you think you have it bad, imagine living next door to your inlaws, and on top of that - they're alcoholics who run your life... And people wonder why I had high anxiety and DP... yeah...
His father is by far much worse off than his mother. He is drunk 24 / 7, and is now waking up in the middle of the night to get a few shots... His mother gets drunk everyday at 4PM... A lovely scenario I have, isn't it? Anyway, his dad is not the same person anymore, from what I hear... He's always yelling about something, starting fights and just being a complete drain on this family. He won't get help and hardly eats anymore. He came up to "help" us clean up today, but instead just acted like a jackass.
This man is going to get someone killed, it's just a matter of time. He drives drunk, because he is NEVER sober. I don't know what to do... call the cops? an ambulance? I know the laws - I, or my fiance, or his mother can't force him to go or stay anywhere... So what do I do? How can we help him before he kills someone? ...or himself? Has anyone ever dealt with anyone like this? I don't know what to do or who to turn to... He's one of the major reasons for why I have anxiety and he just doesn't care.
Anyone?
Thoughts?
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